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In my opinion, anal is great. In the following example, the participant talks about the first time she had anal sex, with a man that she met on the Internet for the purpose of having sex:. In this sense, anal intercourse was sought not only for the physical pleasure that it afforded women, but also valued as a marker for exceptional sex. By equating exceptional sex with exceptional relationships, women sought to express their love, commitment, and openness towards theirpartners through their willingness Looking for some anal play with a woman have anal intercourse, as this woman did with her husband:.
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Infrequent condom use during anal activity was to be expected among participants, Indian girls in Catskill the eligibility requirements. Eighty-two percent of the sample indicated that they had not used condoms during the first occasion of anal intercourse and the same proportion though not necessarily the same participants reported no condom use during the last occasion of anal intercourse.
Reasons for not using a condom during anal sex were doman, including: In the following example, the participant was asked if she had used condoms with her boyfriend the last time they had had anal intercourse:. No, [we did not use condoms]. The reason is that we mostly used the condoms in order not to get pregnant. I had taken into consideration that we are both HIV negative, so the only thing is not to get pregnant. On the other hand, those participants who had used a condom during anal intercourse listed wiman following reasons for doing so: When describing discrete occasions of anal intercourse, on eight occasions participants reported that they had used a condom for vaginal sex to prevent pregnancy, but had removed the condom prior to anal sex.
Among those who reported using a condom during anal intercourse, on three occasions participants used the same condom for both vaginal and anal Milf dating in Osawatomie on another three occasions participants used separate condoms for vaginal and anal intercourse; and on four occasions participants used condoms for anal intercourse but not vaginal intercourse, citing concern about hygiene or pregnancy as motivations.
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Although nearly all of the participants were aware that unprotected anal intercourse might put them at risk for sexually transmitted infections, this knowledge apparently did not Looking for some anal play with a woman into behavioral change, as evidenced by the participant who had unprotected anal intercourse with her HIV-positive partner. To avoid sounding confrontational, our interviewer did not ask participants why they continued to practice unprotected anal intercourse with partners of unknown or positive HIV status, despite the risks involved.
Because our participants tended to follow traditional gender roles when it came to initiating anal intercourse, and because anal intercourse emerged in Woman want casual sex Wauseon interviews as a sexual behavior that complemented vaginal and oral sex, it may be useful to view heterosexual Loking intercourse not so much as a deviant behavior, but as an intensified example of how sexual decisions are negotiated between men and women.
Following this line of reasoning, at first glance the pattern of male initiative over anal intercourse suggests that women might engage in anal intercourse under pressure, coercion, or persuasion from male partners. Taking sexual scripting theory into account, however, a more complex story emerges from the data.
In this context, male initiative alone may not necessarily indicate a wkth of female agency, but rather serve as a marker for the presence of a strong sexual script that dictates male pursuit and female acquiescence or rejection of male desire.
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Nevertheless, as we did not survey a control group of women who engaged in low-risk, protected anal intercourse, it may be difficult to draw conclusions about the relationship between sexual risk-taking and pleasure-seeking behaviors from our sample alone. Future research is needed to elucidate such relationships. When taken together, unprotected Looking for some anal play with a woman intercourse seemed to offer women a way to please their partners, to please themselves, oLoking to avoid pregnancy.
As long as some women view anal sex as a way to bypass pregnancy concerns while maintaining intimacy and sexual pleasure, the failure to educate this population on HIV and STI prevention may lead to increased infection.
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A similar dynamic may be at work among women who engage in unprotected anal intercourse in order to achieve a greater degree of intimacy with their male partners, as in the case of some of our participants. Interventions to promote safer anal sex must find a way to increase the use of barrier methods without decreasing perceived intimacy between sexual partners.
This may be done by emphasizing the intimate nature of anal intercourse, even when accompanied by condom use. Too often, note Gupta and Weiss 40Looking for some anal play with a woman to address high-risk sexual practices collude with existing hierarchies, rather than challenge the underlying structures that contribute to economic and sexual marginalization.
Therefore, if part of what makes a woman feel like a woman is being desired by her male partner, vaginal and rectal microbicides should be marketed to women as products that will enhance their sexual desirability. On the other hand, HIV and STI interventions geared towards women who have unprotected anal intercourse must not lose sight of societal factors that disadvantage women.
Indeed, even in our small sample, the subgroup of women who had experienced non-consensual anal sex tended to report lower annual incomes than those who had not, though we did not test for statistical significance. Future studies should seek to identify the specific factors that put women at risk for non-consensual, unprotected anal intercourse.
To Sexy housewives seeking real sex Las Cruces successful, interventions must take into account the ways in which violence directed towards women can impact their ability to negotiate safe vaginal and anal sex.
Given that the need for female-controlled alternatives to condoms encompasses products that can be used intrarectally as well as vaginally, rectal microbicides should be marketed to women as well as to MSM. Our findings must be interpreted within the limitations of this study. Although the sample was ethnically and racially diverse, participation was limited to Looking for some anal play with a woman women, and more low-income women were interviewed than middle- and upper-income women.
Additionally, as the participants included only those women who were willing to be interviewed about a highly-stigmatized practice, we know little about the experiences of women who may feel uncomfortable discussing anal intercourse with a stranger In terms of the generalizability of our discussion on condom use and HIV and STI prevention, we must emphasize that our sample only consisted of women who had recently engaged in unprotected anal intercourse with a partner of unknown or seropositive HIV status.
There are undoubtedly numerous women who practice anal intercourse with minimal risk e. Future studies should seek to quantitatively assess HIV and STI risk among a larger and more representative sample of women who engage in anal intercourse. Furthermore, notwithstanding that this may have been a Lonely married man wants some group of women who welcomed the opportunity to talk about their anal sex experiences, it is important not to overlook how social constraints Latham MO milf personals norms about what is socially appropriate situated within the interview itself may have influenced how and what may have been discussed during the course of the interview.
Despite the limitations of the study, the findings Horny women in imperial valley here have important implications for HIV interventions aimed at heterosexual women. Looking for some anal play with a woman Center for Biotechnology InformationU.
Perspect Sex Reprod Health. Author manuscript; available in PMC Sep 7. Exner1 and Kenneth H. Author information Copyright and License information Disclaimer. The publisher's final edited version of this article is available at Perspect Sex Reprod Health. See other articles in PMC that cite the published article. METHOD The data for our Looking for some anal play with a woman were collected at a community clinic in the Eastern US [clinic name and location to be specified in the final manuscript] as part of a study of rectal microbicide acceptability in Study Procedures Eligible and interested participants reported to the clinic for a one-time, face-to-face meeting with a female interviewer.
Data Analysis The qualitative interviews were tape recorded and transcribed. The following participant, when asked if she had been pressured to have anal sex by her non-exclusive partner, distinguished between male initiative and male pressure: For example, engaging in an unusual Nuevo laredo sex house swingers bbw needing more with her casual sexual partner made one participant feel more desirable: In the following example, the participant recalls an occasion when she had non-consensual anal sex with a man whom she did not know very well: Pain and Discomfort Coercion and violence notwithstanding, many participants reported other sensations of pain and discomfort arising from anal intercourse, including emotional distress.
The following participant describes having anal sex, while using substances, with the man who would later become her husband: Physical Pleasure In considering the motivations for women to engage in high-risk sexual behaviors such as unprotected anal intercourse, it is important not to overlook female desire 2431 Regardless of who initiated it, many women in our study reported enjoying anal intercourse and the physical sensations related to the practice, such as this participant: What Free sex Rancho cucamonga led you to have anal sex [in general]?
Intimacy and Variety Participants often cited the desire for intimacy or closeness to their partners as either the motivation for anal intercourse, or as the necessary preconditions for anal intercourse to occur. In the following example, the participant talks about the first time she had anal sex, with a man that she met on the Internet for the purpose of having sex: Tell me a Looking for some anal play with a woman bit about your reasons why you did it the first time.
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I would have to say to please my partner. That would be just about it. And it sounds like you, like you said [earlier], he pleased you so much. Like the idea of reciprocity. By equating exceptional sex with exceptional relationships, women sought to express their love, commitment, and openness towards theirpartners Wives want hot sex Alvarado their willingness to have anal intercourse, as this woman did with her husband: Condom Use Infrequent condom use during anal activity was to be expected among participants, given the eligibility requirements.
In the following example, the participant was asked if she had used condoms with her boyfriend the last time they had had anal intercourse: How safe do you think anal sex is when it comes to HIV? Pleasure-Seeking and Sexual Risk Although researchers have documented the relationship between pleasure-seeking behavior and sexual risk-taking in men who have sex with men 36 — 38it is not Looking for some anal play with a woman clear how pleasure-seeking may be related to sexual risk-taking among women.
Limitations Looking for some anal play with a woman findings must be interpreted within the limitations of this study. Erickson PI, et al. Prevalence of anal sex among heterosexuals in California and its relationship to other AIDS risk behaviors.
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